Showing posts with label anti-anxiety. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anti-anxiety. Show all posts

Sunday, February 9, 2025

Listening to Those Little Whispers.

 

When we receive whispers, either from our gut or the signs around us, taking a pause and listening can change the trajectory of our lives in a really positive way.  

When we live only in our heads, it can easily cause overwhelm and exhaustion. It holds us back from living fully and authentically. When we over-rationalize our experiences, and pause for too long, it can make it nearly impossible to pick up the momentum to move forward. 

Our intuition, and the signs we pick up all around us, are our guiding light.  

So the next time something pops in your head that seems curious, go for it. If you feel the urge to reach out to someone you haven't spoken to, let them know you are thinking about them. This may be a pivotal time in your relationship.

If you overhear a conversation, or a song with lyrics that eerily seem to parallel what is happening in your life, listen. Our intuition is our guiding light, and our spirit guides are here to offer us help and guidance. 

Listening, trusting, and responding can create life altering positive consequences, and take you to new and aligned paths.  

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Sunday, February 2, 2025

Being Alone to Get Real So We Can Release Emotional Pain

 

Being alone can feel lonely, but it can also give us an opportunity. When we are alone, we can hear our own thoughts more clearly, and get real about what is going on in our head, our heart and our spirit.

Journaling helps this process because it can give us objectivity. Seeing our words on paper, hearing our voice on voice memo, getting a new perspective by seeing our lives in art form, can give us clarity.

From my perspective, getting real is what it is all about. The comforts we build to create a wall between us and our spirit can cause a lot of heartache and disconnect. 

Sending you love, healing and the path to authenticity. xoxo  

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Saturday, January 18, 2025

Balanced Life, Happy Life.


Having a balanced life is something we all aspire to. 

To be in balance is to be aligned with our true selves, our life goals, and our lifestyle. It keeps us in the right situations, around the right people, and we can be at our best! 

It is living in our truth. 

How to begin?

Self Care

Objectivity 

Self-Sufficiency 

Tapping Into Authenticity, Asking "Who Am I?"

Eliminating Distractions 

Pivoting When Necessary

Take a look, and a listen, and let me know if this resonates with you. If you have ideas that I missed, please post them in the comments section on my YouTube page to inspire others. 

I hope the video brings you balance, clarity, joy, and new ways to navigate your journey. Live your life the way YOU want to.

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Saturday, January 11, 2025

What Can You Let Go Of? The "5 Ws"

 

A New Year is a great time to think about what we can let go of and embrace a more fulfilling and less stressful life. How do you get answers to "what is holding me back, taking me away from living an authentic, aligned lifestyle?" 

In this video, I broke it down into asking ourselves the “5 Ws.” 

By digging deeper, we get clarity, and bring some light to what is tucked away deep in our hearts. 

Take a look, and a listen, and let me know if this resonates with you. If you have ideas that I missed, please post them in the comments section on YouTube to inspire others. 

I hope the video brings you creative ideas, clarity, fun, and new ways to navigate your journey. Live your life the way YOU want to.

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Saturday, January 4, 2025

Are You Busy Being Busy?

 

There are many reasons why we may be busy all of the time. Busy is much different than being productive.

Are we intentionally “busy” in order to feel or prove something, or distract ourselves from something?

Is it “I am busy, therefore I am worthy?” Remember, you are already worthy. You don’t need to prove your worth to anybody. The truth is that people are living their own lives, and thinking about their own path and responsibilities. Their focus is not on us. Although they may be interested, they don’t care to make what we are doing top of mind. Also, many times people sense when we are putting on a show of being busy, as an attempt to prove our worthiness.

If we are using being busy as a distraction to not have to feel something, then we need to get real about what is going on within us. We have to work through our pain, our emotions, and our discomfort. We can’t make it through to the other side without getting hurt a bit. Once we work through our pain, we can release what is bearing down on us. The painful moments and discomfort are part of the resolution. We can’t keep shoving down our feelings as they’ll inevitably keep coming up for us.

  • Grab a journal.
  • Sit with your thoughts.
  • Allow things to come up, without the knee jerk reaction of pushing things down.
  • Come to terms with the notion that things will hurt, embarrass or cause anger, and accept that it’s okay.
  • Allow them to surface and show themselves.
  • Then decide what can you edit out of your schedule.
  • Once you have your list, keep referring back to it as a reminder.
  • Make it a daily practice to recover.


And remember, you got this.

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Sunday, December 29, 2024

If You Are a Worrier, Try This Tip!

 

Ever worry incessantly, creating “worse case scenarios” in your head? Doing this repeatedly can cause us to become spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically unwell. 

In this video, I share a tip that has kept those demons at bay for me. It frees up my mind and heart so I am able to enjoy the present, and the people around me. I hope it works for you too ☺️

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Sunday, November 26, 2023

Does anyone want better sleep? 🙋🏻‍♀️😴😊


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Seriously, what a question! 😂

We all have natural biological clocks and rhythms. Following a 24 hour cycle, these rhythms respond mostly to light and dark. This process affects our health, involving our hormone release (including melatonin), eating habits, digestion, and body temperature. Things that can interrupt this rhythm are jet lag, time differences (including daylight savings time), electronic devices, and dramatic life events. Once our circadian rhythms get off kilter, it can difficult to get back on track without a conscious effort to realign ourselves. As it turns out, there’s more than one schedule to follow, according to our chronotype

So, what’s a chronotype? 

According to Dr. Michael Breus, a clinical psychologist and sleep medicine expert, chronotypes are genetic. The theory is it comes from our species’ need for survival, with different individuals needing to watch the fort at night, and others during the day. There are four chronotypes, the Lion (morning person), the Bear (daytime person), the Wolf (a night owl), and the Dolphin (who has difficulty creating a schedule and is more prone to insomnia).

Here are the four types, along with some relevant tips (a link below is provided for you to take the quiz, but can you guess your chronotype first?):

🦁Are you a Lion? 

A Lion is a morning person, typically waking up naturally as early as 4am or 5am. For this type, it is best to eat breakfast within an hour of getting out of bed in order to synchronize the body clock to the day. As Lions are at their peak in the early morning, this is the time they should be doing their most productive tasks that need top focus. With lots of energy early on, they tend to wane after lunch, and should be doing lighter cognitive activities thereafter. Exercising late afternoon (between 4pm and 6pm), eating dinner afterwards, and then binge watching TV at night is great for their chronotype. An early evening shower is best in order to relax and get a good night’s sleep. Typically, Lions are high energy, are very interested in their health, are organized, and have a list for just about everything (or in my case, a spreadsheet). 

🐻Perhaps a Bear? 

The Bear’s schedule is tuned into sunrise and sunset. They typically get up at 7am, and go to bed around 11pm. Lucky them! This makes the 9am-5pm workday perfect for their chronotype, and gives them enough energy throughout the day to get work done, and ease into the evening. Bears do well to start their day at 7am, then follow up with breakfast within the hour, followed by a cool shower. Their peak performance time is 10am - 3pm, ideally getting a nap in at 2pm. Lighter tasks are recommended thereafter until 6pm. Exercise and dinner at 7pm, followed by binge watching TV works best for them in order to unwind. Bears like, and need, 8 hours of sleep, so the proper wind down, including an evening shower after dinner, works best. Bears get the work done, are affable and fun to be around, and make great friends.

🐺Or maybe a Wolf? 

Wolves are night owls. They wake around 7am (or later), and go to bed at midnight (or later). No surprise, their peak performance time is late afternoon into late evening. If at all possible, a nap around 2pm is perfect. Doing research, making plans, and memory recall is best after 6pm. Exercise is best around 7pm. 9pm and later is their best time for socialization. A hot shower or bath is recommended late evening, before bedtime, so they can wind down and get a good night’s sleep. Wolves are intelligent and creative - often artists, musicians, and authors, and most are risk takers who don’t follow traditional norms.

🐬Or somehow a Dolphin? 

Dolphins are the insomniacs and have a difficult time with any sleep schedule. Because they are light sleepers, they have irregular sleep patterns. Being very sensitive to sound and light, they are easily awakened. As they naturally get less sleep, it is recommended they get out of bed around 6am, and then take a morning run and cold shower to get invigorated to start their day around 7am. Eating breakfast at 8am, or shortly thereafter, works for them. Dolphins are most productive starting at 3pm, with exercise at 6pm. A hot shower or bath at 9pm winds them down for a midnight bedtime. Dolphins are intelligent and perfectionists.

All chronotypes, except Dolphins, do best to eat within an hour of waking, followed by a nap at some point in their day. All four archetypes are advised to stop eating two hours before bedtime, taking an hour to unwind lets the body know it’s time to wind down and get ready for sleep. This routine sets our body clocks, and prepares us to greet the day. People who follow their correct chronotype schedule have said they have gotten better sleep, lost weight, and feel in sync with their bodies.

To find out your chronotype, click here to take the quiz. 

For more in-depth information (and to change your life!), read Michael Breus' book: 

“The Power of When: Discover Your Chronotype--and the Best Time to Eat Lunch, Ask for a Raise, Have Sex, Write a Novel, Take Your Meds, and More” by Michael Breus. 

It has helped me a lot, and a few surprises have worked in my favor, happy to say! 


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